A topic map can't have two associations of same type with exactly same players. I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to do but if I understood correctly you have "influenced by" topic which is the association type. Then you have some role topic, say "person" and you're trying to add the "person" topic twice as a role for "influenced by" association type. You can't do this because this would result in two equal associations and these are merged automatically.
Also note that even if you could do this, later on you would have no way of telling who has influenced who because they both have same role. There are some cases where such symmetric associations would make sense. However Wandora has some limitations compared to standard topic maps, one of them is that you can't have symmetric associations. More information
here.)
What you need to do is create two separate role topics, for example "influences (role)" and "influenced by (role)". Then you can add these as roles for the "influenced by (assoctype)". I added "(role)" and "(assoctype)" in topic names so the two "influenced by" topics won't get merged. It wouldn't be totally bad if they did but it's probably better to keep them separate. If you want to say that players in roles "influences (role)" and "influenced by (role)" should be of type person, you can add a "role class" association in the role topics. Note that you need to add the proper classes for these topics or the association editor in Wandora won't be able to suggest right association types and roles.
I created an example project that does this
here. Look for the person topic in Wandora class/Schema type/Content type. It has two instances A and B and an association between them.
If you want to create symmetric associations in Wandora you have to work around the limitation that each player in an association must have a unique role. One way to do this is to cerate two associations for each symmetric association. In this case you would effectively be saying that "A is influenced by B" and "B is influenced by A" with two associations. If you right click on the associations in Wandora, you can select "Create symmetric associations" from the popup menu to automaticall create these. Note that "influenced by" in most cases probably wouldn't be symmetric. After all, A can influence B without B influencing A in any way.
You can also use the new (and still a bit experimental) query topic map layer (see
this). This can automatically create kind of virtual associations based on predefined queries. In this case it would create the symmetric associations. I made another example with a query topic map setup like this.
Here.
I hope this helps.